Monday, May 3, 2010

Recess


After lunch we go to recess.

Sometimes recess is on the playground.

A lot of children play on the playground equipment.

It is fun to play on the playground equipment.

Everyone should play safe.

When the whistle blows this means it is time to line up.

This makes teachers happy.

After I line up I need to stay in line.

Everyone will be proud of me!

Excuse Me!


Mom talks to a lot of people.

Mom likes talking to lots of people.

Sometimes when mom talks to other people I want to talk too.

I can say, "Excuse Me," to see if Mom can talk.

Sometimes mom will talk to me right away.

Other times Mom is talking about something very important. When she is talking about something important she cannot answer me right away.

If I say "Excuse Me," and she doesn't answer me I will wait until she's done talking.

This will make mom very happy.

______graders are polite and wait until people are finished talking.

I am going to try to be polite.

Bathroom Social Story


Going to the Bathroom

Sometimes I have to use the bathroom.
Sometimes I have to go pee.
Sometimes I have to have a B.M.
After I have a B.M. I need to wipe myself. This is okay.
I will try to wipe myself until my bottom is clean.
Sometimes I might have to wipe myself 2 or 3 times. This is okay.
When I am done wiping I can flush the toilet.
Then I can wash my hands.

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Grind your Mind



Play "Grind your Mind" and take the Peer Pressure Quiz!

Making decisions on your own is hard enough, but when other people get involved and try to pressure you one way or another it can be even harder. People who are your age, like your classmates are called your peers. When they try to influence how you act, to get you to do something, its called peer pressure. It's something everyone has to deal with-even adults. Let's talk about how to handle it.

http://www.bam.gov/sub_yourlife/yourlife_grindyourmind_game.html

Bully Roundup



Play the "Bully Roundup" game to test your bully smarts!!


Stop Bullying Now! You can learn all about bullying and what you can do to stop it. Take a Stand---Lend a Hand!


School Stuff


Interactive website about school issues – Intermediate Level


Stress


Interactive site about stress and dealing with it – Intermediate Level


Everyone deals with stress at times---adults, teens, and even kids. The most helpful method of dealing with stress is learning how to manage you stress.

Relationships


Check out the interactive site about positive and negative relationships – Intermediate Level


Personal ID


Here is an interactive website about self esteem and body image – Intermediate Level


Family Fare


Interactive about different types of families, responsibilities, family changes – Intermediate Level


Emotions and You

Check out this interactive site about positive and negative emotions – Intermediate Level

Communication


Interactive website about public speaking, shyness, assertiveness, conflicts – Intermediate Level


Bullying

Here is an interactive website about bullying for primary/intermediate levels.


http://www.e-learningforkids.org/Courses/Liquid_Animation/Feelings_and_Worries/Bullying/bully.html

Idioms! Those Crazy Things We Say...



The following pages have activities to learn how we say crazy things that have meanings unlike any of the words. All languages have these funny sayings. And it's important to know that when we say these things to others there are social skills we must use.



Idioms give a friendly feeling to our conversation. We use them with our peers. There are times that we don't use them.



Click on the link below for a list of the worksheets.


Social Skills Word Searches









Say What!?


Guess what someone is about to say.


In this game you will be asked to look at a cartoon or picture and guess what words might be spoken by one of the people. You will be given three choices.Use an answer sheet to record your responses.


Gotcha!


The "Feelings" Game: A game with matching real faces with real emotions


Let's Face It! Game


Can you tell what people are feeling just by the look on their faces?


Monday, January 18, 2010

Making and Keeping Friends

Speaking Distance:



Taking Turns at School (Social Story)


Sometimes when I am at school, I need to take turns. Sometimes at school my friends will get to answer first or kick a ball first or talk to the teacher first. It's okay when this happens, because I will get my turn. While I wait for my turn, I will stay calm. I will not get upset. I will not cry. I will wait for my turn and be happy. It is okay to be the last person to take a turn. Everyone is last sometime! Sometimes at school, my friends will get to do something, and I will not get
to do that. It is okay when this happens because sometime I will get to do something that my friends won't. When I do not get a turn, I will stay calm. I will not get upset. I will not cry. I will be happy for my friends!

Teacher Social Stories






Social Story Examples


Here two examples of social stories written to help children adjust to
kindergarten. As you read the stories, try to think of pictures you would use to
make the words come to life.


Lee Goes to School
My name is Lee.
Daddy takes me to school in the morning.
I want Daddy to stay and play.
Daddy has to go to work.
I stay at school and play with my friends.
I can play with Daddy at home.


Mark sits in the Circle

My name is Mark.
I go to school.

We sit in a circle and Mrs. Baxter reads us a story.
I get excited and it is hard for me to sit.
Sometimes I stand in the middle of the circle.
My friends can’t see the story when I am standing.
I can sit and hold my squeezy ball.
Everybody can see the story.

When to use a Social Story?

A social story can help prepare a child for new events by showing him what will happen and what he can do. In a way it is like a “dress rehearsal” for a new situation. They can be very helpful for situations that your child might dislike or be afraid of.

• Going to school
• Doctor appointment
• New baby

Social stories also teach positive behavior. If your child does not behave appropriately in certain situations a social story can help him learn how to behave in a more positive manner.


• Running away
• Hitting others
• Grabbing toys

What is a Social Story?


Social Stories are created for children to prepare for new events or changes to their usual routines. Social stories describe a social situation, and show a child what he can do to cope with it successfully. These stories are special teaching tools because they are personalized. Your child is the star of his social story!

School Social Story/Strips


Social Story Video: Personal Space

No choice in personal space...Now What?


Sometimes I cannot choose how large my personal space will be. Sometimes I cannot choose how small my personal space will be. When I have to sit on a chair that is very close to another person’s chair, I will probably have a small personal space. When I walk through a crowded hallway or on a busy sidewalk, I will probably have a small personal space.

When I cannot choose the size of my personal space, I might have people touch me when I do not want them to touch me. People might also touch me when I am not expecting them to touch me.

When I cannot choose a large personal space, I will try to stay calm. I can tell someone, “I need more personal space.” If they can help me, they might give me more personal space. If they cannot help me, I can wait awhile. Usually, after waiting awhile I will be able to choose a larger personal space.

Small Space

Sometimes I can choose how small my personal space will be.

If I am with a person who I know well, or who is special to me, I might choose to have a small personal space. When I know a person well, a small personal space is a comfortable distance. When I have a small personal space, I can sit near other people and have part of my body touching part of their body.

Large Space


Why is Personal Space sometimes large, and sometimes small?

Sometimes I can choose how large my personal space will be.

If I am with a person I don’t know very well, I might choose to have a large personal space. This leaves a comfortable distance between the other person and me. If I feel like being alone, I might choose to have a large personal space. If there are a lot of noises or activities around me, I might choose to have a large personal space. When I have a large personal space, I can talk to other people or sit near them, but I will not touch them, and they will not touch me.

Who has Personal Space?

Every person has personal space!
I have personal space. My mom has personal space. My dad has personal space. My brother has personal space. My sister has personal space. My pets have personal space. My teacher has personal space. My classmates have personal space.

What is Personal Space?


I have an area around my body that is called my “personal space.” This space is like an invisible bubble. Sometimes my personal space is large. When it is large, my personal space goes out to my fingertips. When my personal space is large, other people stay outside of it. When my personal space is large, I do not touch other people, and they do not touch me. This helps all of us to feel comfortable.

Sometimes my personal space is small. When my personal space is small, it is about the same size as my body. When my personal space is small, I might touch other people, and they might touch me.